#nobrainer lol- the last 20 days is a testiment to that. My best friend left work in Manattan (2 trains and a bus!) to be with me when I was having my son because my husband was away at work and we didn't know if he would make it. My mother in law had to stay back with my little one and all my family lived out of state. I never felt so alone and scared! Needless to say I was so relieved when she got there. I tear up every time I think of it, especially when things get rocky between us.