My best friend is one of the most stylish women I know. She's fearless when it comes to color and unapologetically funky. Her accessories are an immediate conversation starter most days. Her hair -- platinum, mahogany brown, auburn, she's tried them all and done them well. And so I felt a crazy mixture of excitement and jitters when she asked me for my take on a daytime to downtime look for plus-size women. Her response: Why be unnerved? Being curvy is a reality but ignorance has made it taboo. That, somehow, was all I needed to hear.